The spiritual student-Master relationship

The following pages are excerpted from Sri Chinmoy's book, The Master and the Disciple.


As we need teachers for our outer knowledge—to illumine our outer being—so also we need a spiritual Master to help and guide us in our inner life, especially in the beginning. Otherwise, our progress will be very slow and uncertain, and we may become terribly confused. We will get high, elevating experiences, but we will not give them adequate significance. Doubt may eclipse our mind and we will say, “I am just an ordinary person, so how can I have this kind of experience? Perhaps I am deluding myself.” Or we will tell our friends, and they will say, “It is all mental hallucination. Forget about the spiritual life.” But if there is someone who knows what the Reality is, he will say, “Don’t act like a fool. The experiences which you have had are absolutely real.” The Master will encourage and inspire the seeker and give him the proper explanations of his experiences. Again, if the seeker is doing something wrong in his meditation, the Master will be in a position to correct him.

Why does one go to the university when one can study at home? It is because he feels that he will get expert instruction from people who know the subject well. Now you know that there have been a few—very, very few—real men of knowledge who did not go to any university. Yes, there are exceptions. Every rule admits of exceptions. God is in everybody, and if a seeker feels that he does not need human help, he is most welcome to try his capacity alone. But if someone is wise and wants to run toward his Goal, instead of stumbling or merely walking, then certainly the help of a Guru can be considerable.

Let us say that I am in London. I know that New York exists and that I have to go back there. What do I need to get me there? An airplane and a pilot. In spite of the fact that I know that New York exists, I cannot get there alone. Similarly, you know that God exists. You want to reach God, but someone has to take you there. As the airplane takes me to New York, someone has to carry you to the Consciousness of God which is deep within you. Someone has to show you how to enter into your own divinity, which is God.

Our Path, part 3

by Sri Chinmoy.

Now how can we bring the Truth out of its prison cell? Again, I have to say it is through love. Love for whom? Love for God. And who is God? God is the highest illumined part in us. God is nothing and nobody else. I have a head and two feet. Let us say that my head represents the highest in me and my feet represent the lowest in me, my ignorance. I know that the highest and the lowest are both mine. The lowest has to enter into the highest in order to be transformed, liberated and fulfilled. The highest has to enter into the lowest in order to be revealed and manifested.

In our path, the sense of identification is absolutely necessary. The highest has to feel its total oneness with the lowest. The lowest has to feel its total oneness with the highest. Needless to say, the highest always feels its oneness with the lowest. It is the lowest that finds it extremely difficult to be one with the highest because of its fear, doubt, jealousy and so forth.

What kind of commitment is necessary to follow our path? It is not the kind of commitment that you have to make in other spiritual or cultural organisations. For these organisations, you may have to give a regular fee. But when I ask you to make a commitment, it is different. I say that if you see something in me, if you see or feel light inside me, then if you want to follow our path, you can. There will be no monetary demands. You do not have to give me five dollars or ten dollars or anything like that. No! Here it is a matter of your own aspiration-how sincere and regular you can be in your spiritual life. If you are not sincere, then you will not be able to run fast. But if you are sincere and dedicated, then you will run very fast. The commitment I ask for in our path is regularity in your meditation and aspiration, a sincere inner cry. I ask nothing else from any student.

Our path, the path of the heart, is also the path of acceptance. We have to accept the world. If we enter into a Himalayan cave or sit on a mountain top and cry for our personal achievement and satisfaction, then we are not going to do anything for the world. It will be like this: I shall eat food to my heart's content and let my brothers remain unfed and starving. That is not good. If I am a real human being, I have to see that my brothers also eat along with me. If we eat together, then only we shall get real satisfaction.

Similarly, in the spiritual life, real spiritual Masters feel that it is their bounden duty to eat in front of humanity and share the spiritual food with humanity. Now, if humanity as a whole does not want to eat as it should, if many are still sleeping and have not yet felt the spiritual hunger, then what can the spiritual Master do? But if there are a few sincerely hungry seekers, the spiritual Master tells them, "The meal is ready. Let us eat together."

In our path of acceptance, we have to know that the earth is far from perfection. But unless we accept the earth consciousness, how are we going to perfect it? If someone has some pain, I have to massage him. Then only his pain will go. Similarly, if the earth is imperfect at a particular place, I have to touch it with my aspiration and concern. Then only can I transform it. As long as the earth consciousness is not fully realised, I will try to remain on earth to be of service to mankind with my inner consciousness.

-from The Master and the Disciple, by Sri Chinmoy

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Our Path, part 2

by Sri Chinmoy.

But just giving something, just offering something, is not enough. It has to be done with enthusiasm and an intense inner urge. We give to the Inner Pilot in ourselves and in others. While we are giving to someone else, we have to feel that we are giving to the divine in the other person, to the Supreme within him, who now needs this help from us. When we offer divine love to someone, we must do it gladly and soulfully. But while giving, we must not feel that we are doing the other person a great favour, that because we are in a position to help him, we are superior. No! We have to feel that God has given us a great opportunity to be of service to Him and we should be grateful to the person who has put us in a position to help or serve the Supreme in him. We have to feel grateful that we have become His chosen instruments when He could just as well have chosen others. We have to show constant gratitude for the very fact that He has employed us. This kind of devotion is our dedicated service.

Then comes surrender. This surrender is not the surrender of a slave to a master. An ordinary master will find fault with the slave, while feeling that he himself is always perfect. But in the case of the Supreme, it is not like that. When He deals with us, He feels that our imperfections are His imperfections. When he finds mistakes in our nature, He feels that these are all His mistakes. Unless and until we are perfect, God never feels that He is perfect. God is omniscient, omnipotent and omnipresent; it is true. But when it is a matter of perfection manifested on earth, God feels that He is still imperfect in me, in you, in everybody. The message of perfect perfection has not yet dawned on earth. We surrender to God wholeheartedly, knowing perfectly well that what we have is next to nothing and what we are is next to nothing. If we give our nothingness to Him, we become a chosen instrument of the Supreme and permit His Perfection to grow in us.

Love, fulfilment and God always go together. God will never be satisfied with something incomplete, unrealised, unfulfilled and unmanifested. He wants from us realisation, revelation, manifestation and perfection. If these things don't take place in this lifetime, then we shall have to take many more incarnations. But God will never allow anybody to remain unrealised and unfulfilled. Today it is time for you to realise God. Tomorrow it will be the time for your friend to realise God. The day after tomorrow it will be the time for somebody else to realise God. There is for each person an hour, which we call "God's chosen Hour." At God's chosen Hour a person is bound to realise God. We feel that our path is easier and more effective in the sense that we don't have to read millions of books to know what the Truth is. We don't have to exercise our mind day in and day out to know what the Truth looks like. No! Truth is inside us, and it is crying to come to the fore. But unfortunately, we have kept the door shut and we are not allowing the Truth to come out.

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Our Path - a talk by Sri Chinmoy

Our path is basically the path of the heart and not the path of the mind. This does not mean that we are criticising the path of the mind. Far from it. We just feel that the path of the heart leads us faster towards our goal. Suppose I want to go to a place 500 miles away. I can reach my destination either by walking or by flying.

Undoubtedly, I shall reach my destination considerably faster if I fly in a jet plane. Similarly, if we use the aspiring heart and not the doubting mind, we shall reach our goal much faster. The heart is all love. The mind is quite often all confusion. When we say the heart, we mean the spiritual heart, which is flooded with divine love.

The heart is strikingly significant because inside it is the living presence of the soul. True, the consciousness of the soul permeates the entire body, but the actual location of the soul is inside the heart. The soul has everything: Peace, Light and Bliss in infinite measure. We get these divine qualities inside the heart directly from the soul. And from the heart, we can bring them to the mind, to the vital and to the physical proper.

God is extremely simple. It is we who think of Him as someone complicated. God speaks the simplest language, only we don't understand Him. We are all deaf. We have been deaf for millennia. Poor God, He has been talking constantly, tirelessly, but we do not have time to listen to Him.

Our path is the path of simplicity. A child is simple; he loves his mother. He does not have to love anybody else: his mother is his whole world. He devotes himself to his mother. If his mother asks him to do something, he listens to his mother. A child is so simple that he tries to do everything to please his mother; and in pleasing his mother, he is doing the right thing and reaching his highest goal.

In the ordinary life, if someone loves another individual, then he spends most of his time with that particular person. He devotes his precious time to that person. If it is real human love-not divine love, but human love-then he sometimes surrenders to the other's whims even if they are absurd. He surrenders because the two of them have formed an inner and outer bond on the strength of their love. So if one loves another person, then one is ready even to sacrifice one's precious wisdom.

In the spiritual life it is totally different. Divine love never binds us. On the contrary, it expands us and liberates us. When we see and feel that we are being liberated, we feel inwardly a divine obligation to do something for our Inner Pilot. How can we remain aloof from the One who has given us everything, who has brought us the message of divine Love and Compassion? Will it be possible for us not to offer Him something in return? If we remain in the outer life, we only try to grab and possess everything, even what belongs to others. But if we live in the soul, we try to constantly give all that we have and all that we are to the Inner Pilot. Divine love means self giving.

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Whole

Whole

Since we live in the mountains, we have to drive more than one hour to our Centre in Salzburg. Once in winter, when I was driving home alone, I felt very drowsy and probably I fell asleep for one or two seconds. Suddenly I woke up and realised that I was heading straight towards two lights of another car. My car lost control and began spinning. "O God, I have fallen asleep! Supreme, Supreme, please, please help me!" I screamed. The car made a turn to the left side of the street, where there was a high step from the sidewalk. At that moment, it came into my mind that I had promised two friends from our Centre to drive them in my car to the Germany meeting the next weekend. Now the car turned to the right side, where it finally came to a halt on a very small flat space beside the street, avoiding a large ditch. I strongly felt that, through Sri Chinmoy's protection, I was safe and the car whole.

Maria (Salzburg)

Very Much Alive

Very Much Alive

Since becoming a disciple of Sri Chinmoy, I have from time to time felt a very strong inner presence guiding and protecting me. In the spring of 1995, I was giving a meditation class in Nijmegen, a city in the east of the Netherlands. One beautiful day in June, I was driving there on the highway. The weather was perfect, the windows were open and I was singing happily, watching the blue sky. I was driving in the fourth, far-left lane in dense rush-hour traffic, which was moving at the maximum speed of 120 km/h. Suddenly as lightning, an inner voice, speaking in the dialect of the region where I grew up, told me to say a fast prayer for protection, now! I obeyed immediately, meditated and prayed for protection. Then I looked around. Everything was as perfect and serene as before. Within thirty seconds it all changed. My speed started dropping. I pressed the gas pedal, but it was no use. My speed was dropping very fast. On my left was only the guard rail, with no place to stop. Behind me I saw panicking drivers trying to move to the packed third lane in order to avoid me. I realised that I was on the verge of becoming the cause of a chain crash. Then I saw on my left a break in the guard rail. It was a tiny entrance to a carpool lane that was not in use at the time. I later discovered that this was the only place like this for a hundred kilometers. My speed by now had dropped to less than 20 km/h, and I would not have been able to drive more than a few meters further. As I pulled into the space, I uttered a sigh of relief and gratitude, but then I realised that I was still not safe. Smoke rose up from the engine, and my car was still standing partly in the fourth lane. A few cars almost hit me in the back. Within a few seconds, however, a tiny little fire truck parked behind me and put its blue alarm lights on. I have never seen a fire truck that small before or after this incident, but when it was needed most, it was there. The fireman got out of his truck. He was off-duty but had a mobile phone, which in those days was still a rare device. He called the police, who took at least twenty minutes to arrive, and all that time he protected me and my car. The car had to be transported back to a garage in Amsterdam by the road patrol, and was then declared a total loss. I took a cab home—no more car, no more class, but very much alive.

Aster (Amsterdam)

Untouched

Untouched

Ever since I obtained my driver's license, I have driven tiny cars (like the sort they deliver pizzas in). They are zippy and cheap to run, but they are vulnerable in an accident. Here are two stories which I am lucky to be alive to tell. It was Sri Chinmoy's birthday in 1996, and I was driving along the freeway in a country area after a lovely morning meditation at the Centre. A huge semi-trailer was travelling beside me in the next lane. Its driver must not have seen me, for without warning he moved across into my lane. His huge front wheel, higher than my car, banged against my window just inches from my right ear. My car lost control and bounced repeatedly against this huge vehicle, which was so high that I was lucky not to be crushed beneath it. Out of control and completely surrendered, I stared at Guru's photograph and said "Supreme" over and over. Somehow, the semi-trailer went on ahead, and my car veered behind it across the right hand lane (which was free of traffic). I came to a halt in the wide grassy median strip where thankfully the ground was flat and there were no trees or posts. The semi-trailer driver and another person stopped to help. My car was a complete write-off, but I emerged, still chanting "Supreme", with only a few minor scratches to my right hand. The other time, I was driving along the Ring Road when for some reason all the traffic slowed down to about 30 km per hour. Suddenly, in my rear view mirror, I saw a car speeding up behind me. It was going so fast that I knew it could not stop in time, and there was nowhere for it to go. There was nothing for me to do but look at Guru's photograph and chant "Supreme". The car slammed on its brakes, skidded past me on the left where there wasn't a lane, crashed into the cement barrier at the side of the road just beside me, spun around 180 degrees and came to a halt, smoking. My car was untouched.

Marion (Melbourne)